Funnily enough at one point he did have more control over their relationship. He managed to prevent Anisa from linking up with a bunch of Twitch Thots early on in their relationship, but I think Anisa saw a weakness in the fact that Ian had never been in a serious relationship before and weaponized it, and then the entire dynamic of the relationship reversed, leading to him crying about the OnlyFans, then him trying to own Sam Hyde to BTFO the chuds and it backfiring, then him doing a boxing match to own RiceGum and getting brain damage, and now somehow we ended up here