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I've never even met a woman I would fu.c.k.

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At the risk of sounding like cuckjeet, I wouldn't even know where to look or what to look for. No woman has ever expressed genuine attraction towards me, and I'm not exactly girl crazy myself; the very few I have sisa'd over were either taken or a horrible person. I'm not sure if everyone I'm socializing with sucks and I just need to look elsewhere, or if I just have a really low libido o algo, either way at my age I should have at least met a foid to be rejected by but it just isn't so. I'm not even lonely atp; I suppose I just felt scammed spending my entire upbringing listening to normalnoobs gush over relationships just for my experience to be a nothingburger at best. I don't think God would give me this life if there was nothing to gain from it doebeit, so I just use the time and energy I would normally spend seething over foids to focus on my faith, as well as learning about some niche topics I've always had a vague interest in like music/sound design, pharmacology, gardening, etc.
 
At the risk of sounding like cuckjeet, I wouldn't even know where to look or what to look for. No woman has ever expressed genuine attraction towards me, and I'm not exactly girl crazy myself; the very few I have sisa'd over were either taken or a horrible person. I'm not sure if everyone I'm socializing with sucks and I just need to look elsewhere, or if I just have a really low libido o algo, either way at my age I should have at least met a foid to be rejected by but it just isn't so. I'm not even lonely atp; I suppose I just felt scammed spending my entire upbringing listening to normalbad boys gush over relationships just for my experience to be a nothingburger at best. I don't think God would give me this life if there was nothing to gain from it doebeit, so I just use the time and energy I would normally spend seething over foids to focus on my faith, as well as learning about some niche topics I've always had a vague interest in like music/sound design, pharmacology, gardening, etc.
it takes time man, I used to have thoughts like you, Then I finally found her, she is a devout Christian and she loves to read a lot. I'm praying for you brother.
 
At the risk of sounding like cuckjeet, I wouldn't even know where to look or what to look for. No woman has ever expressed genuine attraction towards me, and I'm not exactly girl crazy myself; the very few I have sisa'd over were either taken or a horrible person. I'm not sure if everyone I'm socializing with sucks and I just need to look elsewhere, or if I just have a really low libido o algo, either way at my age I should have at least met a foid to be rejected by but it just isn't so.
You should focus on the former, of just looking further and elsewhere. Good women certainly exist, but they're also certainly far and few. If you're in some sort of college setting or any other educational environment at the moment, then that should be a pretty good place to naturally meet new folks. Otherwise, I don't have experience in adulthood so I can't really tell you where you should go, but I'd imagine somewhere like a local club or a volunteer cause could be good. A church would obviously be a good call, too, but in my experiences, I've barely ever seen people my age at any church in my area, as a lot of them are stuffed with people who are already married.

I myself met the wonderful girl I got fu.c.ked by for a few months in a class about international religions at my high school, and we only ended things because of some forces beyond our control, rather than any division between us, so that past love showed me that there is still some hope in our times in finding a woman who is truly precious. As cliche of a phrase as it is, "they're out there."

I wrote an entire separate section of this reply that was multiple paragraphs in length and that focused on how Saint Paul addresses marriage, but, because the site went kaput last night while I was writing, I've woken up this morning to find that that entire section I wrote is completely gone. Still, to briefly summarize what I remember writing, there is value in both a path with and a path without marriage. Either path can still produce strife and struggle that can then end with joy in The Lord. In the end, it's really what brings your heart peace while maintaining your connection to Him. As stated earlier, I wrote a lot about Saint Paul's writings about marriage, but it's probably more efficient that you just look at them yourself, so here's a link to chapter seven of First Corinthians which goes quite into the subject if you'd like to read it (the middle section, discussing the married and unmarried, is probably most apt for addressing what you face).
 
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